* have multiple girls come. this is a given. it really helps when there is a team of people all working together to get everyone ready & looking their best.
* pay for a percentage of the cost for your bridal party months before the wedding. i put down $20 for each of my girls about 6 months before the wedding. it was not only a nice gift that they all appreciated, but it helped a smidge with the costs they had to pay: an expensive long bridesmaid dress plus hair & makeup if they chose to...which all of them did.
* as the bride, get ready in a secluded section of the house. i didn't have too many nerves the morning of my wedding. i was marrying my favorite person ever & i'm not that shy in front of lots of people (from being a gymnast my whole life) but i was, however, stressed. so i had everyone get ready downstairs while i went for a run with my maid of honor, then showered upstairs, and had hair & makeup done alone. use this key time to chill, crank up the AC, and just enjoy being completely pampered!
* crank up the air conditioning! my parents don't have central air so we were going to take the AC unit out of my bedroom because we didn't want it to look bad in the background of the pictures... but boy did it save the day. my wedding day was SO humid, my hair was practically straight by the end of the night! so the AC kept me cool, calm, frizz free, and sweat free the morning of.
* don't be an overbearing bride to your bridesmaids: it is enough you are making them wear the dress you chose, and trying to get them to be as excited as you are... which they are! but don't push it. don't tell them what nail polish to wear, or how tan they should be... they are smart girls, they know what's appropriate for a wedding, let them choose their own hairstyle & makeup.
* ABSOLUTELY, 100%, have a hair & makeup trial done before the wedding. i showed up & immediately they put me on a diet of tons of water & special creams for my face. i had dried out my skin trying so hard to not have a pimple the day of. not only that, but the first trial i had done i wound up in tears because i didn't look like myself. i wanted less makeup & more natural. so i went back for a second trial and it came out perfect and thus my nerves were calmed the week before the wedding. i know trials are an added expense, but it is SO worth it in my book.
* choose hair & makeup that reflects YOU. if you're like me & wear your hair down all the time, choose a hairstyle that is down or at least half way down. you don't want to look back on your wedding pics and think "that looks nothing like me" also, choose makeup that is more natural. no one wants to see a bride caked in makeup & blinking a million times because she has never worn fake eyelashes before!
if you have ANY other questions do not hesitate to write them below. i am an open book, so please feel free to ask away!
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